I’ll keep this blog post short as I don’t feel like doing anything today. I actually took a break from blogging all of last week because it was my birthday week and I was busy booking hotels for a September trip.
I had an amazing birthday weekend and I celebrated my special day with two genuine and thoughtful friends.
You can read a birthday post on my Facebook Page Saudi Diva. In that post, I talk about the energy of resisting one’s life situation or circumstances. Looking forward to hearing your thoughts on that post.
Today, I want to talk about living from a place of alignment and taking action from that space.
An example of where I wasn’t living from alignment was when I was very active on Instagram. I realized lately that the platform doesn’t add any value to my life, that I don’t feel good when I use it and that its concept really doesn’t resonate with my brand or personality. So I decided about two months ago or so to stop creating content on IG and I never felt better. My accounts are still active but I don’t create any content on them or post anything anymore.
Dating Funnels: Which one is for you?
Although I spoke about the different dating strategies and funnels that you can do, I didn’t really highlight the importance of committing to the ones that feel right for you.
Let me explain. I personally deleted the only dating app that I had on my phone in November of 2020 and I never looked back since then. I actually stopped checking dating apps since early March 2020 and I’m so happy with my decision.
Basically, I felt like the profiles on these dating apps aren’t a match to my profile. Plus, most of dating app users aren’t really looking for long-term relationships and that’s not aligned with my dating goals.
Since most of my friends are single like me and I come from a toxic family background, the friends and family way to meet potential dates isn’t for me either. So is the lost lovers one.
The two main dating funnels that I feel are a good match for my personality and soul essence are matchmakers and the law of proximity.
If you want to know which ones are aligned with your soul, look out for these things:
- How do you feel when you think about using these dating funnels?
- How do you feel when you actually use them?
- What does your intuition tell you about these dating strategies?
- What clues or messages from the Universe did you receive about them?
- Did you meet any good matches through these dating funnels?
- Are you able to commit to using them for the long-run?
Because I’ve met suitable matches through both matchmakers and the law of proximity, I feel like they are both aligned with my personality and I can continue to use them to attract matches.
I’m going to end this blog post here but stay tuned for new blogs on Saudi Diva blog this week.