Dating Sunday: Dating Strategy – How to Know Which One Works for You

I wrote a blog post about choosing the dating funnel or strategy that’s aligned with your soul essence. You can read it here.

Today, I wanted to elaborate on what this means by sharing a personal story.

I had a woman who’s a relationships therapist tell me once that I should stay in my feminine essence and not initiate a conversation with a man who I was interested in.

I also attended a retreat that she hosted in Bali with another coach/therapist..

After attending the two-week retreat, I was trying to be in my feminine energy for most of the time. I wasn’t taking inspired action to manifest love and of course nothing was happening.

I realized that what I was doing was not aligned with my soul essence and intense personality. I’m not saying that I have to chase men – which is something that I never did or intend to do.

But the fact that I was pretending to be a passive woman who doesn’t take inspired action to create her reality truly halted my search for love and manifestation journey.

What this Means for You

Because each one of us has a unique personality and blueprint, the dating strategy that works for me might not be the best for you.

While online dating, friends and family and matchmaking routes might not be the best for my personality, they could be just what you need to manifest your person.

I also shared in this blog post how the law of proximity feels so aligned with my personality and authentic self.

The law of proximity is all about meeting people in real life at public places that are close to your home. And this law applies to when you’re traveling as well.

Since all the other dating strategies didn’t work for me, I have a strong feeling that I will meet my person while traveling through the law of proximity.

You can Lead with a Balanced Energy!

Life is not black or white. Life is messy. It’s grey.

And this applies to the energy that you choose to lead with too.

You don’t have to be in your masculine energy the entire time and you certainly don’t want to completely live from your feminine side either.

Leading with a balanced energy and switching between the two is the way to go. It’s like a dance and it takes practice.

While you want to be mostly in your feminine energy to attract a masculine man, being passive about your search for love or manifesting is not going to get you results.

The Universe wants you to have it all, but remember that you are co-creating with the Universe.

Co-creation requires you to take inspired action and follow your intuition and the signs.

Which dating strategy do you feel is aligned with your personality and true self?

Are you being complacent with your search for love? Or do you take inspired action and follow the signs?

I would love to know your thoughts about this. Let me know in the comments!

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